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Notes from the other chair.

Short pieces on EMDR, trauma, anxiety, and the unglamorous everyday work of healing — written for the people who read a therapist's whole website before they ever send a message.

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Teens & college

Starting therapy in your first year of college

Nobody warns you that homesickness and burnout can look identical from the inside. What actually brings first-years in — and what changes when they come.

September 1, 2026 · 6 min read
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Coping tools

When your body gets there before you do

Five grounding tools that work because of how the nervous system is built — not because you talked yourself out of the feeling.

August 20, 2026 · 5 min read
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EMDR

What an EMDR session actually feels like

Not hypnosis. Not reliving it. A straight account of what happens in the room, minute by minute, from the first session to the first time a memory loses its charge.

August 11, 2026 · 7 min read
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